The Secret Point of Conflict

“No. You’re wrong because of X, Y, Z. Why don’t you get that through your thick head?”.

“Listen, I’m not saying it again even though this argument is a retread. A. B. C. A, B, C is where its at you mad cap”.

And on and on it goes. You can shift the variables to whatever you wish but the template remains identical. Did reading that ring any bells as your subconscious spotted the Pattern and suppled the details which drape the skeleton with flesh from your own examples? I’ll bet it did. I’ll bet it did. Lets spin it back via a Warriors lens after one has gained Knowledge of Self:

“No. You’re wrong because of X, Y, Z. Why don’t you get that through your thick head?”.

“OK, lets say you’re correct. X, Y, Z is the real deal. What next?”.

“Whaddya mean “Whats next?”. It is what it is. Accept X, Y, Z or face death”.

“Cool, cool. I see your point of view. What came before X? Answer me this”.

“Huh? Well, I don’t know. I never thought about it. Who cares? X, Y, Z is our tradition and you’re a dimwitted idiot for even daring to question what was said back when”.

“Maybe, I can see you’re passionate about this but check this:

I remember seeing, elsewhen, that X, Y and Z actually correlate to Twenty Five, Twenty Six and Twenty Seven. Ain’t that interesting? Like there is a hidden rhyme to the reason”.

“Yeah, yeah. Come to think of it I remember overhearing a conversation between our grandparents on the same thing as a jit. Back then I wondered “What about the other Twenty Four? What could they mean?”.

“Exactly, exactly, my friend. See, I happen to suspect that A, B, C is simple as One, Two, Three which also links to Do, Re, Mi…”.

“Woah, woah, woah. Hold up there a sec. Yeah, I’m hearing you on FM. So you think there may be things that were hidden in the mid and whilst we’re too busy fighting at the ends we miss the bigger pic? Walk with me for a second. What if…”.

You have just Witnessed the the secret point of conflict:

Resolution.

See if, the next time you step into a retread via a well worn groove in your head that I call Patterns, you can drape this new skin over that dead, beaten horse you call argument and see what happens because you have to go into someones world to show them your own. What happens next is absolutely amazing as its akin to psychospiritual alchemy in full effect because once you stop prolonging a conflict via resistance that which would have persisted fades like the sound of one hand clapping and you’re faced with an immense release of energetic greatness that can be used for anything you wish. Along the way you’ll find more conflict but apply the Knowledge again and that vicious circle becomes a spiritualized spiral instead.

If you ever find something irritating in someone else know that you exhibit the same thing which is why it gets under your skin because you feel now how it is on the other end. “Yeah, but when I do its different”. No it isn’t. Or, if it is next time it kicks flip the script and attempt to shift the variables instead of playing the same old Game of tennis that ends win no wins but two losses. The is prime, grade A Game that I’m kicking for those willing to do the Knowledge and develop genuine free will because this is the exact opposite of most peoples Click-Whirr “I’m so trigged I’m literally shaking” Thunking which drives most conflict as they wish others would conform to them which hints at their lack of flex.

Did you know there is a testable link between how easily your body stretches and your mind can accept new perspectives? This alone is quite startling to those who feel it in the flesh as they’ve often said:

“Man, this stuff really works. That thing I said happened again and this time I was cool as ice with a slice thrown in. Just chilling. You should have seen her dish as she kept jabbing at the buttons and I said “I can see this is important to you but lets use this moment of immense emotional friction to ask your Self – “When else do I remember feeling like this?“”.

And she did. Long suppressed events of invalidation from back when had been steadily chuntering inside her subconscious since they made their imprint and had ran, unchecked, for three decades and change before the man in question had had enough of this because they had a fantastic relationship apart from these petty arguments that reared their heads like clockwork. She too started Knowing the Ledge, via osmosis, and thats why I’ve said that a rising tide lifts all ships made of flesh via the conscious resonance of one willing to look within and comprehend that each interaction is an invitation to know more about your Self by first being willing to step into the world another says is the way it is.

In that respect too many of us are running around with outdated maps that never matched the landscape in the first place and then we scream and yell when the next man says “What the hell are you talking about?” before pointing at their own frame of reference and continuing the argument. In many ways this is most peoples favorite pass time based on the immense amount of energetics they invest. Just check out most comment sections online for proof of what I said. For me I was always more interested in why they Thunk this. Can they reality test their hypothesis or is it purely an illusion built inside their head, back when. It was from these interactions that it clicked that 81% of people are, by their own admission, incapable of doing the Knowledge as they don’t realize what they truly wish is to be heard and validated. That is the first part of true communication because if you are sweating in the kitchen over a hot dish that you’ve placed a whole load of effort into making and then lift the lid to be met with disappointment that the rice pudding you were craving is actually minced beef instead then its obvious the problem is your internal OS as its the definition of insanity to keep doing the same whilst expecting different.

In the above situation lets say one steps in who can create an amazing metaphysical pudding that he’s busy tasting. Obviously you can’t imperience his inner realm and if he steps in and says “Nope, no, not needed, why the hell is this in the kitchen?” and tears your world map to shreds people will cling to what they feel guides them. “Wait, wait. Its a family tradition, its been passed down for generations. This is how my parents made it and I want to be just like them. Stop, stop it now, you infidel!”. How would said Soul get into the others head that they need other ingredients that are more in alignment with their intent? What if they tried addition instead of subtraction? They included rice on their list. Next time they went shopping and prepped the same old script they’d notice a variable shifted. The proof is in the literal pudding.

Slowly, piece by piece, you recalibrate their perspective with what you know works well and they’re actually seeking as you’ve been eating said dish for as long as you can recollect. Know what happens next? The newly enlightened comes back and says:

“Hey, check this” as they whip out some curried rice and mince they cooked in one dish thanks to thanks to their increased wavelength and resonance. Next thing you know you are now in the zone of inventing and it feels quite interesting as as those bits between A, B, C and X, Y, Z are getting filled in increments as you both engage in a process I call Centering in Self. That, my friend, leads to such a high level of pleasure that, once you taste it, you’ll wonder why on Earth you ever invested energetics in the alternative. Know why? Lack of Knowledge. Its why people perish and its as true now as it was then because whilst we may have loads of fancy tech and countless innovations we are still, at are most basic, cavemen. Maybe even less because at least they were in resonance with their environment whereas we are consumers, par excellence.

The secret point of conflict can melt old Patterns and the best thing is it only takes one with Knowledge to make a shift. Granted, like I said, 81% are too rigid but after giving this a few spins you often notice they move onto someone else instead to get their fill. Or is that drain? I’ll let you tell it because, once again, its all about perspective, vantage and resolution. In that respect the current version of you, at this very moment, is akin to listening to your favorite song on a static filled AM radio set with one speaker missing and the other busted. Thing is, its all you know so when another cat has a Five point One setup with the bass thumping and aural imaging in full effect that is ringing clear as a bell and says the lyrics are a bit different from what you’re mangling they simply can’t hear the groove to which you’re dancing. So what do you do in this situation? Same thing as I said but with a greater range of variables and finer level of finesse but, before anything, you must be willing to step into their world and see their perspective as that automatically defuses the potential for most conflict.

Granted the (false) self in your head that barks its edicts in a tone so familiar that all Slaves Thunk is them does not like this concept. Not one bit. The good news is those folk would’ve clicked off this article long before getting to this point and that hints about the true nature of consciousness and proves what I said about outdated maps and frames of reference that may or may not exist until you reality test. In that respect one who calls you on your BS is actually the best friend you can get because if you can actually listen as they poke holes in your argument you may just come closer, in increments, to what is the all of everything:

You. Your consciousness. That state I call the Witness which is constant from one incarnation to the next, whether dreaming in bed whilst under the influence of a state of temporal disconnection mixed in with paradoxical resonance to a higher wavelength that your flesh decodes and stitches together into a “reality” as that is what it does best or this life, at the moment, and other similar spins in the Game which uses your Soul as a credit to create your imperience of being a thing wearing flesh that walks around on a planet that floats in the abyss as it chases a fireball through a vacuum.

Even typing that sounds ridiculous and yet that it’s the base totality of your reality. Or so they say. Imagine if we, as individuals and a collective, batter the limits of the A, B, C vs X, Y, Z Thunking and draw the links that were never hidden but just awaiting for you to click that all of this takes place inside your consciousness ergo you have never met a stranger and there are no enemies in this realm, just friends, as each can share valuable lessons on your perspective as well as ways to upgrade it if you are but willing to engage your heart instead of your head and see through their lens for a sec.

The Game of Souls has you, my friend.

Till we meet again